Let’s discuss and enlighten ourselves on common misconceptions that society uses to stigmatize women.
SAGGY BOOBS AND LOOSE VAGINAS.
A few days ago, I watched a clip of a very brave and beautiful Nigerian girl, Chidera Eggerue, on our British TV here. She is campaigning to end the stigma associated with saggy boobs with her #SaggyBoobsMatter. She wore a blouse with a plunging neckline and no bra. And her boobs are not firm. And she is a young girl! She is taking control and confronting the stigma associated with saggy boobs. She has not birthed any baby and yet has very saggy boobs. She said she used to be ashamed of her boobs but has now decided to take control back. She will not be made to feel ashamed of something she has no control over. She has naturally saggy boobs! Simple!
Some women have naturally saggy boobs. From the onset, it has not been firm and it has got nothing to do with the amount of sex they have had. It is just their genetic makeup. Also, pregnancy and breastfeeding can make boobs lose their firmness. The amount of sex a woman has had does not determine how perky or saggy her boobs get to be.
Now, to the issue of loose vaginas. There is also a common misconception that a woman’s Vagina gets slack if she has had a lot of Penises going through it. Errmmm… NO. The Vagina is very very elastic! What is a Penis compared to a human being? A whole human being! If a Vagina can slacken because of small Penis( yeah… small Penis. I don’t care how big a Penis is, it is still small compared to a baby), how is it supposed to allow the exit of a whole human being?
This is the truth – a vagina loosens up when aroused in readiness for penetration. And after sex, it tightens up again. Each woman is different. While one woman might have a large Vagina, the next woman might have a small Vagina. It is just the genetic makeup of each woman.
Now, listen up guys! YOUR PENIS IS NOT BIG ENOUGH TO SLACKEN OUR VAGINA!!!
If you have sex with a girl and you feel she is not tight, and you are sure that it is not your penis that is small, then, it is quite likely that the lady has a vagina that is big and that has nothing to do with the amount of Penis that has been in it. A man with a small Penis did not create his Penis. A woman with a big Vagina did not create her Vagina. Just as there is nothing wrong with a man having a small Penis, there is also nothing wrong with a woman having a big Vagina. The only problem is those men who, knowing that they are the ones with a small Penis, try to slut shame a girl by saying she has a ‘loose’ Vagina or a man with a small Penis having zero foreplay moves. That would be terrible!!!
A Vagina has no meter box. In the words of a friend, ‘toto no dey read meter’. You can NEVER know how many Penises a vagina has had based on its tightness. Stop stigmatizing already! It is because of this stigma that some women lie about their number when asked. They say they have only had one lover and that is just to explain why there is no hymen to tear.
Heaven helps that virgin with a big Vagina and who also did not bleed on the first intercourse (yes, not all women bleed on being disvirgined). If that lady was married to a typical misogynist man who is expecting blood and a tight Vagina…
Your Penis, no matter how big can NOT compare with a human being.
Your Penis, no matter how big, cannot slacken a Vagina.
The 3 things that can make boobs saggy and a Vagina ‘loose’ are:
Genetics
Motherhood
Aging
Thank you!
Ps… if you, as a lady want to tighten your vagina, Kegels will do it for you. Just stop your urine mid-flow whenever you go to pee. Once you know how to do that, you can do the exercise anywhere, I’m even doing it now as I’m typing this”
By Olu Bunmi
©Amaka Nicholas
